Ending a Job Doesn’t Negate the Good You Did While You Were There

Recently, I stopped a meaningful volunteer position since the organization no longer needed my services. Deep down, I knew this was a short-term gig, but I wasn't sure how long it would last. And when it became clear that it would be ending soon, I was feeling quite distressed. My mother gave me some words … Continue reading Ending a Job Doesn’t Negate the Good You Did While You Were There

Dating Series #5: The Importance of Teaching Youth Healthy Coping Skills for Life’s Challenges

Another reason why I wrote my book First Comes Self-Love, Then Comes Marriage, was so people realize that no matter how good and successful people appear on the outside, they may be suffering on the inside. Also, on a similar note, no matter how good and successful people are when they are growing up, you … Continue reading Dating Series #5: The Importance of Teaching Youth Healthy Coping Skills for Life’s Challenges

Dating Series #4: Why the Term “Losing One’s Virginity” Sucks!

I never expected to have premarital sex. I also never expected my father to die suddenly when I was 21. But when G-d threw a wrench into my existence, it shifted how my life played out. For years I could never stop wondering what my life would have been like if my father wasn’t stripped … Continue reading Dating Series #4: Why the Term “Losing One’s Virginity” Sucks!

Dating Series #3: The Cycle of Negative Actions and Self-Destructive Choices

You do one thing bad like shoplifting (or having sex in a culture where premarital sex is greatly frowned upon) in one unhealthy relationship and all of a sudden it’s now something you have done, it’s part of your possible reality. If you do not address this and work on forgiving yourself, you are more … Continue reading Dating Series #3: The Cycle of Negative Actions and Self-Destructive Choices