Growing up I watched a lot of Rom Coms. To this day, I still enjoy the fantasy stories of man meets woman and how they fall in love. But ever since becoming a parent I have noticed that the love between a parent and their child is just as romantic, albeit in a very different … Continue reading The Love Between a Parent and Child
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Day Off: A Break from the Routine
I had been looking forward to my morning off of going to the dentist. It meant I didn't have to prepare lunches for myself or my daughter who goes to the preschool where I work. My husband is amazing with her and was going to spend the day with her. I was also intending to … Continue reading Day Off: A Break from the Routine
Losing Control, Losing My Kid’s Shoes
Let me start off by saying these are $10 toddler sneakers. So they are not stressful to lose from a financial standpoint, but they represent so much. Here's why. I had a whole plan for how Friday was going to go. I would go to work in the beginning of the day, leave for my … Continue reading Losing Control, Losing My Kid’s Shoes
The Flawed Equation of Being a Parent and Having a Career
You want to give 110% to your career, you want to give 110% to your kid. 110% + 110% = 220%. But you are one person, 100%. It's a flawed equation. I'm not saying it's not doable. Of course it is. But when it starts to get frustrating, remember it's not you—it's the situation. Don't … Continue reading The Flawed Equation of Being a Parent and Having a Career
Family Reunion Triggers Self-Judgment
As I look forward to seeing many of my beloved relatives, I am NOT looking forward to the inevitable psychological backlash. When I see these relatives (basically, all of them) I am reminded of the person who I used to be, the young woman they saw blossoming and were so excited for what was to … Continue reading Family Reunion Triggers Self-Judgment
Ode to Our Stroller
I like my routine. Unfortunately, I know this even more when my routine is dashed. The particular routine I'm speaking of here is walking with my daughter to work/school, pushing her in her stroller. I never realized until her stroller got damaged in airplane travel recently how well it had worked for me. As a … Continue reading Ode to Our Stroller
Identity Subsumed in Child
I love my daughter but a part of me feels like my whole life is turned upside down and I have lost who I used to be in my new identity as mama. I have modified my career path (at least for now) to make a steady income while being able to be with my … Continue reading Identity Subsumed in Child
Caring for a Child is HARD Work
There is a long-time misunderstanding that being a stay-at-home mom is not working. Well, it surely is! Taking care of a child is HARD work. I've learned this since my daughter is 15-months-old, as well as I work with babies and toddlers on a daily basis at a local preschool. Even people who can afford … Continue reading Caring for a Child is HARD Work
Missing My Former, Pre-Mom Professional Life
Last week I had a very frustrating experience. There was a special speaker coming to the preschool where I work to discuss self-regulation and sensory processing—how kids take in the world around them, regulate their emotions (or don't). This relates to my masters in applied physiology and nutrition, as well as my certification in yoga, … Continue reading Missing My Former, Pre-Mom Professional Life
Embodying the Experience of a Relative Visiting My Toddler Daughter
This past weekend my brother visited us. The week prior my mom did. It was so great to see them spend time with my spunky 14-month-old daughter. This morning as I played with her, I imagined what it is like to play with an adorable toddler for 1 hour, as opposed to being in charge … Continue reading Embodying the Experience of a Relative Visiting My Toddler Daughter
Mindful Nuggets 